Are too many black females
hooking up with “nut jobs?” © 2016
It keeps on happening. A boyfriend or husband “loses it.” Then, in a moment of jealousy and rage, he often kills his girlfriend or wife.
Just recently, a Dearborn Heights, MI man, who had killed his previous pregnant wife and spent time in prison as a result, was released. He remarried. Later, he killed his two biological children and his wife’s two children from a previous marriage. He tried to kill his wife but failed. It’s been reported that he went berserk after his wife wanted a divorce.
In another case, a man didn’t like it when his girlfriend ordered him to leave the home they had shared. In response, he also went berserk and violent. These incidents happen all over the country and have been happening too often with barely a whimper of outrage in our communities. Why?
Here’s a thought: These crimes are considerably more heinous and numerous than what the police is doing.
Many times, these nut jobs leave behind clues they were capable of violence towards their significant others. They often have mental problems, control issues, or they may have spent time in jail for being violent. In their minds, if they cannot have a particular female, no one else can have her.
Too often, insecure, desperate females, lacking self-esteem, somehow think it’s cute or endearing if a guy acts controlling or possessive towards her. They may think that kind of behavior is proof of love. But that kind of behavior will get them abused or killed.
What takes place much too often “in the real”reminds you of what you may have seen on the Jerry Springer Show. On that show, so many females were fighting over guys who had absolutely nothing going: no job, no education, baby mommas, children they weren’t supporting, no ambition, and more.
The irony is there are many decent black men out there sisters could choose from. They come in many varieties. They are handsome, not-so-handsome, ambitious, not-so-ambitious, employed full-time, employed part time, and so forth. The key is to ask questions and listen carefully to the answers.
Another key is to use the right “bait.” The right “bait” is above your neck, not below your neck. If females use lust to attract males, it’s a guarantee they will attract the wrong males most of the time, and they’ll wonder why they keep attracting the wrong guys.
hooking up with “nut jobs?” © 2016
It keeps on happening. A boyfriend or husband “loses it.” Then, in a moment of jealousy and rage, he often kills his girlfriend or wife.
Just recently, a Dearborn Heights, MI man, who had killed his previous pregnant wife and spent time in prison as a result, was released. He remarried. Later, he killed his two biological children and his wife’s two children from a previous marriage. He tried to kill his wife but failed. It’s been reported that he went berserk after his wife wanted a divorce.
In another case, a man didn’t like it when his girlfriend ordered him to leave the home they had shared. In response, he also went berserk and violent. These incidents happen all over the country and have been happening too often with barely a whimper of outrage in our communities. Why?
Here’s a thought: These crimes are considerably more heinous and numerous than what the police is doing.
Many times, these nut jobs leave behind clues they were capable of violence towards their significant others. They often have mental problems, control issues, or they may have spent time in jail for being violent. In their minds, if they cannot have a particular female, no one else can have her.
Too often, insecure, desperate females, lacking self-esteem, somehow think it’s cute or endearing if a guy acts controlling or possessive towards her. They may think that kind of behavior is proof of love. But that kind of behavior will get them abused or killed.
What takes place much too often “in the real”reminds you of what you may have seen on the Jerry Springer Show. On that show, so many females were fighting over guys who had absolutely nothing going: no job, no education, baby mommas, children they weren’t supporting, no ambition, and more.
The irony is there are many decent black men out there sisters could choose from. They come in many varieties. They are handsome, not-so-handsome, ambitious, not-so-ambitious, employed full-time, employed part time, and so forth. The key is to ask questions and listen carefully to the answers.
Another key is to use the right “bait.” The right “bait” is above your neck, not below your neck. If females use lust to attract males, it’s a guarantee they will attract the wrong males most of the time, and they’ll wonder why they keep attracting the wrong guys.