Shit I can't do this stuff in 140 characters..so bear with me. I'm just kinda in middle & seeing it happen on both ends. We all do things together as a group and then we also do things separately. You and I go out and we don't always invite her and I know it's never an intentional diss. Plans just happen, life just happens and she doesn't get invited. Or we come over and hang with you and Ed and they don't get invited, or Ed comes out to a garage night but Jeff doesnt. Or times when you and Tracy go to lunch or the mall and I'm not invited. All those things aren't intentional. I know the both of you aren't choosing to not invite me...plans just happened. You and I made plans for TFZ...we knew for a week and neither one of us called to include Tracy. They called us yesterday, impromptu so we went over. I guess I see as if I (or we) do it too (not inviting all to everything and having alone time one on one with you or alone time as couples with you and Ed (that sounds dirty...oops), then I can't be upset if I hear that you guys went out and did something without me or if Ed & Jeff ever went out to do something and Eric didn't get an invite. I know that it's not personal because I know all 4 of you..I know you wouldn't set out to hurt us like that, just like I/we wouldn't set out to hurt T&J by doing something with you or you/Ed. Unless I missing a big piece of the puzzle (which I could because I'm outside looking in), I just see last night as them doing something that you/I (or us as couples) have done at times to them..but again, never with personal diss or intent.